When we think of ways to make others happy, the actions that come to mind often involve spending money. And while money can allow you to do fun things for and with others, it’s not the only way to make someone feel good. There are many free and low-cost ways to show someone you care about them without emptying your wallet. Here are five ideas to show someone in your life that they’re valuable and you care about them.
1. Surprise Them With a Little Gift
Think about the last time someone surprised you with a little treat. Maybe it was your go-to coffee order, a cupcake, or something shiny they found while thrifting. No matter what it was, they picked someone out because they thought of you, which goes a long way. One way to show someone you care about them is by sending them a gift, which can be almost anything.
This gesture is twice as meaningful if they’re going through a hard time because they probably need support. Perhaps you’re someone of few words or don’t know how to be there for someone during their situation. That’s when giving a gift basket can do the heavy lifting. Sympathy gift baskets are designed specifically to bring warmth and comfort to those facing difficult circumstances.
You can take this to the next level by sending the recipient the gift basket anonymously. Anonymous gifts are a way of showing someone you’re not about receiving recognition for your goodwill. Instead, they send the message that you care only about their happiness. This effectively adds a layer of charm to the whole action.
2. Jump on a Virtual Hangout
Sometimes, you wish to be with someone, but for whatever reason, be it logistics or some other factor, you can’t be with them. In these cases, jumping on a video call can fill that gap. Jumping on Zoom or Facetime can be a great way to cheer someone up. They see your face and feel less alone, and you both get to see each other’s facial expressions.
Whether it’s a virtual game night or a watch party, spending time together can lift spirits and remind the person that you care enough to be with them, even if it’s on a screen. This is especially important for friends or family members who live far away or those who might be feeling isolated.
It can still be a great idea even if they live close to you. Many adults have cram-packed schedules, making frequent meetups more challenging to coordinate. There’s also the element of having to “host” someone, which can create obligations to have a tidy house and food to serve. One or more virtual calls each week can satisfy connecting with someone in your life without the burden of hosting or being hosted.
3. Shoot a Funny Video or Meme Their Way
As cliche as it is, laughter is the best medicine and a powerful mood booster. Sharing a funny video or meme can be an easy way to bring lightheartedness into someone’s day. If you know what makes the person laugh, take a minute to send them something you know they’ll love. It might be a clip from a movie or show or even a static meme.
Some say sending TikTok videos is a new love language, and it is a great way to show others you care and you’re thinking about them. This quick and easy gesture can break the monotony of their day, especially if they’re feeling stressed or down. Just think about what you know they enjoy, and send it their way. You’ll probably receive some dank memes in return.
4. Bring Them Flowers
There’s just something about flowers that lightens people’s spirits. While fresh flowers have the potential to be expensive, there are plenty of budget-friendly solutions out there worth considering. The thoughtful act of delivering flowers—either in person or through a service—can add a splash of color to someone’s day and show them they are appreciated.
If costs are prohibitive, you can forage wildflowers on your or your neighbor’s property (with their permission). Or grow your own! And maybe it doesn’t have to be flowers, per se. Maybe your recipient would be just as touched by receiving homegrown herbs, fruits, or vegetables from your garden if you have one.
5. Send Them a Playlist
Music can help people get through even the challenging moments in life. So why not be the courier of that music? Sharing a personalized playlist is a simple way to make someone’s day. Whether it’s filled with songs they love or songs you love, the gesture shows that you’ve put thought into creating something just for them.
On that note, the added bonus of sharing music you like gives them a means to understand you better. That’s a two-way street when you think about it. You’ll feel better knowing they know more about you. They will feel good knowing you went through the trouble to share that part of yourself with them.
How Will You Make Someone Feel Valued Today?
Costs aside, some of the heartfelt gifts or gestures a person can give come from what’s free to give in the first place. Practice knowing what the people close to you care about most, and in that, you will be inspired to express love and care for them. Demonstrating that you remember and act on what others care about goes a long way in reminding people they are loved.
Published by: Khy Talara
